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But drop and break it enough times, and it will shatter into so many pieces that you will never be able to put it back together again, no matter what you do. Understand that it is up to you to make yourself happy, it is NOT the job of your spouse.

Figure out as individuals what makes you happy as an individual, be happy yourself, then you each bring that to the relationship.

You are supposed to keep the relationship happy by consistently sacrificing yourself for your partner and their wants and needs. There is some truth to that. Every relationship requires each person to consciously choose to give something up at times.

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